The lack of contact with HIM and the lack of "yeah, that does suck" from HIM have begun an internal quest for clarification. Ok, so you are not my boyfriend...by far. But we did kiss once and then you left. So now what? I can't expect much sympathy out of you, except that before you were in no-mans land you were my friend. You have always been my friend. If you were stressed I would talk about it with you, because we're friends. I don't think its too much to ask. Except when I think about it you tell me all the time when you are having a bad day and I always listen and tell you that it sucks. It is not too much to ask. Disappointment.
So can I hang out with any boy that I want to? I think so. Can I get boys to take classes with me? I think so, because I already did. Would it be ok to go to parties that boys invite me to without you? You betcha, I guess. I think I've drawn the line at going on dates with other people. I've put myself in HIM's situation and I would not like it if he was going on dates with other girls, so I won't. Not that anyones asking...yet.
Currently fighting that needy feeling. Any thoughts?
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This is a hard one. On the one hand, there have been no commitments, no DTRs, so I would say go out with other people. On the other, as you said once, you had no idea of the level you were dealing with, and he might take it wrong.
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Blerg.....that was funny. I made an audible laugh, so thanks azucar.
maybe you should take a fake date to a hockey game that he will be attending and see if that gets his attention
I"m with Jess on that one, and as for needy feelings. Find solace in chocolate, ice cream, or together, and tell a friend. Once you say things out loud to a safe friend, then you'll realize how silly you sound. I should have done that when I was dating Josh. Oh, well, I got what I wanted in the end.
i love this game. tell me which one you play.
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